If You Could Ask Your Partner To Do One Thing Sexually, that he/she normally WOULD NOT DO? What would it be?

Ya know ... There are quite a few kinkfo posters who don't currently have partners and so are entirely precluded from answering these questions. Just a reminder.

You're right...My Mistake! Thx

Sorry, did I mis your response to your own question?

Did I ask a question?

Sorry, misposted was responding to original post. My bad.:)

My request would be for her to submit entirely. She gives in...but does not submit. And although I can tell she enjoys giving in to her kinkier side, I know that if she submitted to my full attentions...it would be unlike anything she's experienced. She has a hard time relinqueshing control.

You might be on to something. She is a very strong willed person. But I'm a rock. Perhaps that IS part of the turn on for her. To be dominant and yet DOMINATED by another.

Yes she was! Maybe she liked it rough

That's a very profound and sexually exiting way of looking at this. I DO enjoy dominating a person,(women sexually/men socially) but I've never thought about the intimacy and intensity that exists between the struggle and the victory. If you can it victory.

I think a dichotomy is much more interesting than being just generally submissive. IMHO, it's more interesting to get a strong-willed person to submit to you than it is to get someone who easily submits to anyone.

It seems more personal, somehow like that person is submitting specifiy to *you*, not just doing what they normally do. I know not everyone likes that dynamic. But for some of us it's pretty damn hot. ;)

Anything good is rarely free

I totally turned someone who had the tendency to be dominant but who identified as a sub and hadn't recognized that tendency in herself yet. She can switch into that Domme mode very easily now. There is another guy I've played with who is a consummate slave when owned - and he can Dom me like no tomorrow (I'm not the only one he'll Dom, but I'm one of a few).

Likewise What's fun about a "Truly dominate master" who has to control every situation?

Or someone who has to tell me he's dominant. If he really is, I should know without being told. (I mean, if he's telling me this as a way to impress me or something. I don't mind people saying it as background information to some comment they're going to make.)

I agree, there are some men/women that radiate Dominant to me. I don't need to be told. I just feel it.