Calm Rant I came up with a great idea to tell my wife what I was into so she would know in case she EVER came to her senses and thought about sex at least once. I filled out a SUB fetish form. It was really fun to fill out. I was really nervous showing it to her but it felt like a great "submission" scenerio. Turns out nothing really shocked her about anything I filled out. She did tell me that she never thinks about sex and never has the urge to have sex. She's always thinking about the projects we have to do around the house, she's with the when I'm at work, she works two nights a week and on Saturdays. She's stressed out with the and I continue to approac her in nice ways dropping hints and even asking if we can have sex. A vacation away from the for the weekend is not going to help. Doing things around the house doesn't work cause I do a LOT of things around the house including my own laundry.(my choice). I am nice to her, I take care of the . I think she feels like she has to keep her head full with chores and has to stay overly busy. She gets on herself if she takes a lazy day and vents on me. She literally complains that she didn't do anything some days. I remind her that I didn't ask or tell her she had to do anything. I also remind her that I don't ask anything of her regarding cleaning the house or doing chores. What does this have to do with kink? I think about it day and night and it really hits me when I lay down next to her every night. I have a perfectly nice shaved wife that I would love to please in a split second if asked.....but can't. AGHHHHHH

Im sorry... that must be hard for you. Has she seen her doc?

Thank you For posting your pic on here for us all to enjoy. you're making my day at work so much more enjoyable! Absolutely gorgeous

have you tried bribing her? She can a 30 minutes of massage = ten minutes of suckie suckie? I've gone through what you're going through and it really hurts. Don't let it tear your self esteem out, and try to remember it's her problem not yours. I'm sure you're hot and she needs to see a doctor to get the kink fire back. Really try bribing or try telling her she either performs or you replace her.

WOW. NOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

hey if you are going to do something stupid blow your brains out on xmas day so the entire family will never forget you. I swear people say shit like this on CL so hot babes will give them a little attention. billiethepillie suicide prevention coodinator

That was my belt for starters....

At least you could be given the Darwin Award?!

Seriously? Dude, you think divorce will destroy your family? What in the hell are you thinking? If your wife can't/won't give you what YOU need, you need to let her go. Plain and simple. Ending your life is a cowardly way of dealing with your problems.

Calm Donwn... LittleJunior is kidding. I remember his situation.

Nice to know so many care!!

remember to cut in line with the vein I have no pity for anyone who'd do something so stupid over sex...sorry. Shotguns with OO buck work best...put it against the inside top of your mouth...hold it steady and pull the trigger with your toes. And remember to do it outside so you don't shit up the house.

you are a MAN GOD DAMNIT! ACT LIKE ONE You love your kids?? Do you?? WHAT KIND OF MAN WOULD TALK ABOUT KILLING HIMSELF IF HE LOVED HIS KIDS??? Put your fucking big-boy panties on and cowboy the fuck up will ya?? You have children who NEED a FATHER...NOT A FUCKING HEADSTONE AND A LIFE OF SHAME KNOWING WHAT YOU DID! Get a grip and get some damned help...TODAY

No kids I would never do that to them.

Mom? Dad? Sister? Brother? point is you have people that care...buck up and drop that shit off your radar

it doesnt matterif you have kids or not. newtons law "Every action has a negative reaction" Do you not realise the emotional shit your wife would deal with afterwards? or your freinds, mother father sisters brothers? Co-workers. By you making a selfish choice, you would be fucking up each and every one of their heads, for months, years and maybe even a lifetime. Sorry bud, but no one is special enough to have that privlidge. My suggestion to you! Seek counseling. (for yourself) and get out. For one, do not allow a woman or man to dictate your happiness to the degree you have. Stop with the self pity party. Grab yourself by the balls, pick yourself up, start a new life. And find YOUR happiness.

Hold on LJ! you really need to take a deep breath and think of what this will do to all your loved ones. Talk it out on here if you need tox